tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post6148040209670283049..comments2023-11-13T02:00:52.653+11:00Comments on life's free treats: The Question of RAGE.meggiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00061112627819270427noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-34465004791074007592007-10-23T11:06:00.000+10:002007-10-23T11:06:00.000+10:00Am glad about the good health news and hoping like...Am glad about the good health news and hoping like heck it's not a cancer. <BR/><BR/>And sign me up for the rage outlets. Do you get a discount for multiple visits? If not, I might get cranky!!My floathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17002186548335132157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-87332829915802271332007-10-23T06:54:00.000+10:002007-10-23T06:54:00.000+10:00Yes, all the articles say we shouldn't keep our fe...Yes, all the articles say we shouldn't keep our feelings pent up inside us. But.... how does one manage to 'get them out'? <BR/><BR/>I guess some people use their hobby, to. I don't really garden, like some do. But I do love to prune renegade vines and the like. Pruning, that's a safe way to "blow off some steam." <BR/><BR/>And a man I know, says he gets "hammer therapy" out of his projects around the house. That's another way, which is "allowed."<BR/><BR/>But your Rage Outlet Centre sounds the best. All purpose.<BR/><BR/>Now, what was the very nice thing you were told, about your health? Come on, we need some nice news. :-)<BR/><BR/>Mari-Nanci<BR/><A HREF="http://photoscitymine.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Photos-City-Mine</A>smilnsighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17207943167502354530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-32429233479830501022007-10-22T19:14:00.000+10:002007-10-22T19:14:00.000+10:00There is a theory that sadness is just anger turne...There is a theory that sadness is just anger turned in on oneself rather than released in a positive way. Maybe this is why there are so many deeply, sad people.<BR/><BR/>Have we evolved so much that we've lost touch with the therapeutic value of released anger?riseoutofmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14900369522350465257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-86599324625728905632007-10-22T00:31:00.000+10:002007-10-22T00:31:00.000+10:00Glad you're well Meggie.You seem to have hit a vei...Glad you're well Meggie.<BR/>You seem to have hit a vein of excellence with your writing lately, whatever the rights and wrongs of raging!Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09764296105901909328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-34866316949799124362007-10-21T16:08:00.000+10:002007-10-21T16:08:00.000+10:00That's one of the reasons we left Holland. It's a ...That's one of the reasons we left Holland. It's a big rat race full of rage over there. Now we live relaxed. haven't had any colds anymore. A bit of teenage stress I admit but that's it. Unfortunately the roads are getting fuller here as well and the que's longer. Still not as bad as overseasMarjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17458942200244031009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-15163222787380111092007-10-21T14:26:00.000+10:002007-10-21T14:26:00.000+10:00Firstly, I hope ALL of the news from the doctor w...Firstly, I hope ALL of the news from the doctor was good.<BR/><BR/>It certainly seems that there is more rage in the society these days. I wonder why? <BR/><BR/>On one side we have our 'expected entitlements' in society, and on the other side the growing lack of responsibility for our actions towards others.<BR/><BR/>Whatever the solution, we often hurt ourselves still more by 'fostering and feeding' our rage, allowing it to distort our perspective on every aspect of life.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10901064145483995261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-60362704265855220892007-10-21T14:03:00.000+10:002007-10-21T14:03:00.000+10:00Oh, goodness. I like your idea of the rage outlet ...Oh, goodness. I like your idea of the rage outlet center, and I can understand the idea of people feeling so powerless over various areas of their lives that the frustration just builds up.<BR/><BR/>I think going there might have to be medically or legally prescribed in many cases, though. I have a suspicion that the people most in need of relief for their rage, the ones who go home and kick dogs or children or spouses, aren't self-aware enough to realize that they're frustrated and are relieving it the wrong way.Tanya Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15919250829858831002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-52654508355192188342007-10-21T11:51:00.000+10:002007-10-21T11:51:00.000+10:00Sometimes losing our temper just a wee bit helps t...Sometimes losing our temper just a <EM>wee</EM> bit helps to curb the pent-up rage. I have a co-worker who feels she has to micro-manage everything I do. She is just a peer, not a supervisor. I have gone for weeks (months) putting up with her bullsh*t, and finally the other day I lost my temper. I even swore. It was what I needed to do, and it was what she needed. It did the trick. She was shocked, but she backed off.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes we just need to do that when life gets unreasonably unfair. And then everyone feels better afterwards. :-)Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06979114933441527890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-29685025106020287102007-10-21T10:21:00.000+10:002007-10-21T10:21:00.000+10:00I keep RAGE at bay by thinking of all the wonderfu...I keep RAGE at bay by thinking of all the wonderful people I have met, all the nice things that happen to me during the week, and being thankful that I live in a country where it's illegal to carry a gun and there's very little chance of suicide bombers crashing into me while I'm doing my shopping.Shammickitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11969803866899076638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-61161670876065088612007-10-21T02:23:00.000+10:002007-10-21T02:23:00.000+10:00So happy your doctor visit went well. A rage centr...So happy your doctor visit went well. A rage centre, I like that idea. Actually, I have a ranting blog coming on; not full-blown rage but just something that really pisses me off.<BR/>Otherwise, you know what the worst thing about remote or mobile phones is? You can't slam them down when you are outraged.Ian Lidsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14106994463366766471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-92037689459782497542007-10-20T23:43:00.000+10:002007-10-20T23:43:00.000+10:00My cancer doctor talked to me about bottling up fe...My cancer doctor talked to me about bottling up feelings of anger. He said it is better to get it out than to keep stuffing it down. Most things I handle pretty well, but once in a while a good cry or a scream or slamming that door HARD!! (when no one's around) and telling it to Jesus helps me!!ancient onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12996555276368371467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-82921327906074695842007-10-20T19:57:00.000+10:002007-10-20T19:57:00.000+10:00There's definitely too much pent-up rage out and a...There's definitely too much pent-up rage out and about, which unfortunately spills over, often in the most inappropriate of ways. <BR/><BR/>Perhaps instead of rage centres, we should have some de-stressing centres on every corner, where people can just have a bit of time out to take some deep breaths and count to ten, or have a bit of a chuckle?Fairlie - www.feetonforeignlands.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00145612102935177016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-71795982689634319982007-10-20T17:03:00.000+10:002007-10-20T17:03:00.000+10:00Isn't rage a result of lack of control over one's ...Isn't rage a result of lack of control over one's circumstances? And don't the "scientists-say" studies indicate that folks who lack control over their circumstances are more likely to suffer many maladies?Granny Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07302978680897139954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-90204277842584002792007-10-20T11:47:00.000+10:002007-10-20T11:47:00.000+10:00I do know it is not good for your health to bottle...I do know it is not good for your health to bottle it up( could cause the hammer in the back of your head??)I hope your health is okay.....if worried keep getting it checked out. I find rage in other quite imtimidating and embarrasing. I often feel it is being directed at me even when I am assured it is not.<BR/><BR/>Things that work for me...doing something exhausting like running ( or walking ) very fast or punching cardboard boxes or pounding the trunk of a big tree. If it is the very upsetting kind of rage (at bad news ) standing in the shower and letting it pour over yourself while howling your eyes out is theraputic.Ali Honeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12671890094425941272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-15219460401172059912007-10-20T10:20:00.000+10:002007-10-20T10:20:00.000+10:00Meggie, you're a wonder. I always find that a bit...Meggie, you're a wonder. I always find that a bit of rage is always good, although it tends to bubble up into laughter at the silliness of it all. Whether it be at me or some other clown.Harmany Quiltinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02666564938764124294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-50550949108043101822007-10-20T10:19:00.000+10:002007-10-20T10:19:00.000+10:00Hi All, Firstly I dont think cancer is a worry. If...Hi All, Firstly I dont think cancer is a worry. If it is, I am sure it could be dealt with. It is a skin thing.<BR/>As to the comments about Rage.<BR/>I dont think it has a place either, in an ideal world. Alas, there are many damaged people out there, who cannot deal with their rage, & turning our faces from it, wont make it go away. <BR/>I suspect a lot of enraged people have had sad rage filled childhoods, & are unaware how to deal with such feelings, other than to vent, or take it out on others. <BR/>Do you feel anger is ok? Is rage a form of anger, which goes unchecked, or managed. Look at any little two year old toddler. There will be flashes of rage. The lucky ones are taught how to deal with that emotion.<BR/>I suggested a 'Rage Centre' to try to prevent some of that rage occuring out in the real world. <BR/>Yes, I had heard that Japan has such centres.meggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00061112627819270427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-67892831702338916532007-10-20T07:12:00.000+10:002007-10-20T07:12:00.000+10:00I don't think that rage has any place - not even a...I don't think that rage has any place - not even a rage centre. It is unhelathy even there. It seems to stem from an unbridled sense of entitlement amongst our society.<BR/><BR/>I do hope that all is well with you on the medical front.Tracey Petersenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02434423460092424684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-65420604770273511952007-10-20T03:50:00.000+10:002007-10-20T03:50:00.000+10:00A certain amount of rage is probably okay. It lets...A certain amount of rage is probably okay. It lets us all know we are human. I think it is how we vent that rage that makes all the difference in the world. <BR/><BR/>I have a friend that is one of the most rage-full people I know. I get nervous going anywhere with him because he is very likely to "blow" at the least little thing. I try hard to never give into it, but I must admit that certain driving situations can send me over the edge.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12325465720003721471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-29978756464587867712007-10-20T02:41:00.000+10:002007-10-20T02:41:00.000+10:00There are 'clinics' being held in Japan to vent ra...There are 'clinics' being held in Japan to vent rage. It's good, I guess, but really scary that it's required.<BR/><BR/>(found you by way of Ian's blog...nice to 'meet' you!)Taihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03501421874989420807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-90732409702151706722007-10-19T23:47:00.000+10:002007-10-19T23:47:00.000+10:00Now for your rage center you have to have doors fo...Now for your rage center you have to have doors for us to slam! That's how I go... all through the house slamming every door in sight hard as I can... I usually do this when I am sure I'm completey alone in the house... but you might be on to something there...<BR/><BR/>Glad you got some good news at the GP and hope it continues to be good forever!!ancient onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12996555276368371467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-80023022268549518452007-10-19T21:55:00.000+10:002007-10-19T21:55:00.000+10:00Your post makes me glad I live in the country wher...Your post makes me glad I live in the country where we see only a couple of cars a day go by. Not much road rage going on here.<BR/>Have a wonderful weekend.Joycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17083924435653058457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-34762087574338075292007-10-19T21:10:00.000+10:002007-10-19T21:10:00.000+10:00Rage is evident unfortunately in Japan. I have a ...Rage is evident unfortunately in Japan. I have a feeling that is hidden more in this culture than in others. So many emotions played down and masked. Even good emotions. As for the rage, I think the suicide figures in Japan are telling us something.Tanyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858446371419879296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33880433.post-13359034841143765802007-10-19T20:59:00.000+10:002007-10-19T20:59:00.000+10:00whoa what's this about a cancer? Meggie are you al...whoa what's this about a cancer? Meggie are you alright?velcrohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16729091819572955175noreply@blogger.com